Why don't love songs sound like this?

"A thought transfixed me: for the first time in my life I saw the truth as it is set to song by so many poets, proclaimed as the final wisdom by so many thinkers. The truth--that love is the ultimate and the highest goal to which man can aspire. Then I grasped the meaning of the greatest secret that human poetry and human thought and belief have to impart: the salvation of man is through love and in love. I understood how a man who has nothing left in this world still may know bliss, be it only for a brief moment, in the contemplation of his beloved. In a position of utter desolation, when man cannot express himself in positive action, when his only achievement may consist in enduring his sufferings in the right way--an honorable way--in such a position a man can, through loving contemplation of the image he carries of his beloved, achieve fulfillment. For the first time in my life I was able to understand the meaning of the words, 'The angels are lost in perpetual contemplation of an infinite glory'"

~ Victor E. Frankl, from Man's Search for Meaning

Instead of this:

Your love, your love, your love is my drug

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It's a quarter after 1, I'm a little drunk and I need you now

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So let me in give me another chance

To really be your man
Cause when the roof cave in and the truth came out
I just didn't know what to do
But when I become a star we'll be living so large
I'll do anything for you

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Everything is opposite,
I don't feel like stopping it,
so baby tell me what I got to lose.
He's into me for everything I'm not,
according to you.

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When you know it's meant to be

Everything comes naturally, it comes naturally

When you're with me, baby.

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I'm only gonna break break your

break break your heart

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I never meant to start a war
why does love always feel like a battlefield?
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Which is all that I hear on the radio.